Is there a reality where people do not misunderstand and are not misunderstood? How do you figure out love that you can’t see? - 49 days
Misunderstandings happen all the time. They can’t be avoided because it’s human nature to misjudge. Misunderstandings causes arguments between individuals who truly love one another. Misunderstandings hurt. The feeling of desperately expressing what you feel but not being understood causes such frustration and that is what truly tears your heart. People who claim they have not had a single misunderstanding in their lifetime have not truly experienced life.
However, sometimes, misunderstandings are made for the benefit of others. Sometimes, if you love someone so much, you’d let the misunderstanding persist because by doing so, it’s a way to let the person you love feel less miserable. Perhaps because of love, even though you’re misunderstood you don’t find it necessary to justify your actions. Instead of hurting the person, you’d rather be misunderstood.
Love is a juxtaposition. It’s terrifying but comforting. It’s painful but soothing. It’s something you want but can be dreaded. Love is feeling that you’d do anything for a person to make them feel happy, and I guess it can’t be figured out as easily as people would like to, but I think that you know you’re in the right relationship when everything feels right and natural. Things like being able to find comfort from silence or maybe even talk all day and realize there’s still more to talk about, that’s how I imagine love will be. But then again, what can I say about it till I’ve experienced it myself?
Love if patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self0seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It alway protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. - 1 Corinthians: 4-8
Are we happy plastic people Under shiny plastic steeples With walls around our weakness And smiles to hide our pain But if the invitation’s open To every heart that has been broken Maybe then we close the curtain On our stained glass masquerade
I love Winnie the Pooh because his words have the capability to teach us how to love and be gentle to others.
Piglet: How do you spell love?
Pooh: You don’t spell it, you feel it.
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"If ever there is a tomorrow when we’re not together…there is something you must always remember. You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think. But the most important thing is, even if we’re apart…i’ll always be with you"
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"If the person you are talking to doesn’t appear to be listening, be patient. It may simply be that he has a small piece of fluff in his ear"
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"If you live to be 100, I hope I live to be 100 minus 1 day, so I never have to live without you"
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"Promise me you’ll never forget me, because if I thought you would, I’d never leave."
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"Some people care too much, I think it’s called love."